Faux Pas

Being back in the States after three years in Germany and three years in Japan, comes with certain, petty... quirkiness'(?). Take dining out for instance. I have totally forgotten how going out to eat at a resaurant by yourself is such an absolute, BIG NO-NO! I was amazed at the reaction I received from the restaurant's host and waitress when I mentioned that it was just me. I guess they didn't know whether or not to feel bad for me, or wonder what was wrong with me.

In Europe and Japan, it's not a big deal - at all. As a matter of fact, I rather enjoyed it. In Germany it was great! The waitress' wouldn't bat an eye, but instead join me in conversation or even in meal. There were even instances when, if table space was limited, you would be seated at a table with some random person - that was acceptable and enjoyable as well.

It's unfortunate that we American's are so consumed with our personal space, wanting nothing to do with your fellow 'neighbor,' loathing the so-called 'loners.'